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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-09-13 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4271 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4271 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I am glad you realized not to listen to douches. Was the douche a named user or some shitty anon?
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2018-09-13 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry, op. the longer I am in fandom, the more I realize how much douchebaggery there is. I'm glad you realize what they did was shitty, and I'm sorry you had to go through that.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry OP, they had no right to treat you that way :(

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Ouch! They figured out who you were? What a jerk.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just impressed someone was able to recognise you like that.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Speaking of things we hyperfixate on, I am still embarrassed that I messed up the Jojo ship CLAMP basically started out by making fan comics of. Is it important at all? Nope. The brain sucks sometimes.

I do stuff like yours a lot after the fact too. Someone said some shit and I find someway I could have responded better.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, OP, that's terrible. I would say I hope that the douchebag sees this and feels shitty, but I suspect they wouldn't feel bad at all. They'd just think it's the internet so they can say what they want, and how others respond to it isn't their problem. ...which is kind of true, I guess, but also pretty callous.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
God, OP, I'm sorry that this happened to you. I can say directly that I would beat the shit out of who the asshole was for you.

Probably if they wanted to bitch in the form of a secret about some person trying to inject fun into a dying place, they'd rightfully be smacked down for being a shitty person.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll join you on the beat down. I'm pissed someone said such a horrible thing to OP.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-13 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry that happened to you, OP. That person's an asshole.
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[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2018-09-13 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry OP, that can really hurt and I hope things have gotten better for you and you're in a better place.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
First: That's a really neat layout for a secret, OP.

Second: I wish I could kick that douchebag anon in the teeth for you.

Third: I'm glad you were able to take something good away from the experience, and I hope you don't let anyone piss on your parade again.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Really sorry op.
Whoever it was is an utter asshat!
Terrible they made you feel that way

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
Some people are assholes, OP. There's a good chance that person was some jerkwad troll who was fucking with you and hasn't even read your fic. Not letting anons and internet randos have the power to get you down is probably a good idea. You don't know them, they don't know you... their opinions mean nothing.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
People suck. I’m so sorry that happened to you OP and especially that it still impacts your enjoyment of your fandom.

Also, this is one of the most aesthetically pleasing secrets I’ve seen in a long time.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 12:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Not gonna lie, the bluntness of the comment makes it kinda comical.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-14 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope whoever wrote such a disgusting thing to you sees this:

You're a huge piece of shit. And you should be fucking ashamed of yourself. I hope you are. I hope you're haunted by it.
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[personal profile] toshi_hakari 2018-09-15 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry this happened to you, OP :( I don't understand why people feel the need to be shitty about other people and their enjoyment of a specific fandom.

That's why I mostly stick to a couple of people I know who also like The Thing™ and leave out all the rest... it's mostly for the better. I do hope you can eventually rekindle your involvement in the fandom and enjoy it.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-15 09:02 am (UTC)(link)
Hi OP

Something like this happened to a friend of mine. Well, sort of a friend.

We were together in a small fandom, and they were always trying to get my attention, and I was a complete arse to them because I was super popular at the time, and it all went to my head. I wasn't spiteful, but I didn't give them the time they deserved, and I was very dismissive and short with them when they talked to me. I later apologised to this person, I even made a fandom secret about what a cock I was. They saw the secret at the time and had no idea I meant them, but we chatted privately a few years later and I sent them the secret directly. They were very gracious about my asshattery and took my apology in stride.

They then told me that in their current fandom, someone had also made a cruel secret along the lines of your douchebag's wording, making a play on my friend's username. They were putting on a big smile, but I could tell it had hurt their feelings. I felt awful that I'd initially done the same kind of thing.

I'm sorry this kind of thing goes on in fandom, and that you had such a negative experience. I'm sorry I was the kind of negative asshat that you may have encountered. And if you're the friend I'm talking about, even if we haven't spoken in years, I think of you often and I think you're brilliant.

(Also, your secret is very nicely presented. I like the layout.)
(Also-also, aplogies for being late to the party with this comment.)