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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-09-24 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #4282 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4282 ⌋

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[Colette]


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[Sara Sidle on CSI]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Step by Step, Cody/Dana]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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(Anonymous) 2018-09-27 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not a TERF argument, nor is it why people become Pan as opposed to Bi.That's a Pan argument against bisexuals. Some Pans act like the Aggressive Vegans of sexuality, unfortunately. Some have even gone to bi+ events to tell bi people how transphobic they are for not IDing as Pan, to say nothing of constantly bringing up this wank online.

Also TERFs haaate bisexuals. Yes, there are bi terfs. They are the most biphobic people imaginable and will tell you exactly how much bi people don't belong at pride, should hate themselves for having any male attraction, should simply force themselves to become lesbians and don't belong in the ~glorious revolution. They act like sycophants to the straight and lesbian terfs and for that, the TERFs occasionally allow them to be called "one of the Good Ones."

(It's where the term "Good Bi" came from.)

There being bi TERFs hasn't really kept people from IDing as bi. There's been a lot of push from the bi community to redefine their language to be more trans inclusive, while bringing up the trans-inclusive history they always had all along.

(Anonymous) 2018-09-27 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep.

Discussions about biphobia: relationship violence, medical discrimination, mental health discrimination, HIV stigma for men, stress due to invisibility around straight homophobia, gender identity issues because American culture STILL thinks homosexual sex has to involve a queen or butch, media erasure, news erasure, erasure from key areas of research and funding...

Discussions about panphobia: Somewhere, a person with a trans or GNC partner uses the word "bisexual."

TERF denial of biphobia is really nutty. Radical feminism recognizes rape as a form of political oppression, except when bi women are raped twice as often as straight women, then that's just homophobia, misogyny, and bad life choices by the woman. Any reasonable form of radical feminism would be examining how some straight guys treat bisexuality as a sexual fantasy as long as he's at the center, and get violently jealous when he's not.