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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-10-10 05:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4298 ]


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(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on the context.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Great pic LOL

It's interesting how people who rant about "pedophilia" seem to be extremely, unusually, ah... focused on finding pedophilia everywhere.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
nah

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude. If someone is calling something pedophilia because an adult character used to be a child, then yes, they are deliberately trying to find something that's not there. And I'm going to wonder why.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-11 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's because they're secretly pedophiles in the vast majority of cases.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-11 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Since when does

being focused on finding pedophilia = secret pedophile

?

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(Anonymous) 2018-10-13 06:44 pm (UTC)(link)
didn't just about all adult characters used to be children?

I mean.. if they're human, they definitely did?
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(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry, wrong thread!
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[personal profile] shortcrust 2018-10-10 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
(This comment was a misfire bc I wasn't logged on but like, the sentiment stands.)
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[personal profile] shortcrust 2018-10-10 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sensitive of age differences in media if only because it tends to be a reflection of how little presence women above a certain age get on screen (that graph of leading men v leading ladies) and that carries with it some less fun connotations. But also, like, I see teenagers dish out piping hot takes about how viscerally gross the age difference is between two literal adults with 14 years between them and I'm like. You've got the spirit but please take a breath and go outside and come back in a few years with some perspective.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I really wonder how much these people would have been frothing at the mouth during the heyday of fandoms like Gundam Wing...

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
It seems weird to point to anime here for your example, when anime as a genre and anime fandom both actually do have massive fucking issues with sexualizing underage characters

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
So? Don't pretend the purity brigade hasn't started their age wank in the western parts of current anime fandoms as well.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not like Western anime fandom isn't full of people who love loli or whatever

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure if you're deliberately missing the point, actually missed it or are very clumsily trying to troll.

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[personal profile] feotakahari 2018-10-10 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this about Voltron? Everything else I can think of involved characters who were themselves pedophiles. (Lucoa, I’m looking at you.)
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(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I saw a gif from a fetish anime and now I think all Japanese men are pedos unlike pure Westerners who do the same shit with more actual live girls on screen.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
that's not my point at all but OK

(Anonymous) 2018-10-10 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Really depends. Was there an original dynamic of, say, parent/child? Because, ick.

Did they just happen to meet once or twice when one was a child, and then later on reunited in adulthood as equals? Fine by me.

And if they're shrieking pedo because they can't think of their favorite character as an actual adult, then yes, a little STFU is in order.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-11 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, if the older character is fondly reminiscing about how cute their partner was as a toddler and how they always loved them and were just waiting for them to return the sentiment, I’m out. Met kid once or twice? Eh. Met when one was 23 and one was 43? I don’t care.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-11 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
OP here. I don't want to out myself because it's a smallish fandom. Not that I haven't seen it in other fandoms. In this one it's the third thing you said. Canon has a period of time where he is underage, but it also shows him as an adult with a serious career. That's the age I ship him with another character who is older by an unclear number of years but my best guess would be 4 or 5? There's not a huge age gap.

There's a group in the fandom who sort of dominate all discussions who refer to him as "my son" and "cinnamon roll" and they're awful to anyone who disagrees with how they see him.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-11 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
My favorite switcheroo on this type of pearl clutching is when there's a large age difference, but both are actually legally and functionally adults...as in even the younger person in the ship supports themselves and pays their own bills.

Somehow, don't ask me how, the whole "pedo" thing gets thrown around (or even better, "they're like father and daughter!"), but it's so obvious that it's all part of painting a hated 'ship as "evil" that it's ridiculous.

Then there's the variant: the older partner always gets older as the series continuous, but somehow the younger partner *never ages* and is the same age they were in the first episode.

In all seriousness, there are legit ships that make me cringe because there are some elements that do make it squicky (at least to me), but sweeping up all ships that have a 10+ year age difference when the characters met when they were already adults and there's no power imbalance between the two into the pedo bucket is insane.

(Anonymous) 2018-10-13 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

This. I have a ship that I like who are about 12 years apart in age, but they're both adults. But yet people will claim that's it's pedophilia. I just shake my head and block/mute them and their vocal supporters.