[ SECRET POST #4323 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4323 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Iron Fist, season two]


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03.
[Venom]


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04.
[Dragonsphere]


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[The Captive Prince series by C.S. Pacat]


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06.
[Sarah Michelle Gellar]










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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

My experience is that if women are trash talking their male partners to you, they might be sexually interested in you and hoping you take this trash talk as meaning they are available.

My experience is of men trash talking their female partners to me for this reason. It has yet to work on me, because it is skeevy. But they keep trying.

[(Anonymous)]

Yup, you quickly begin to see just why they're available. All I process from that kind of exchange are three things:

1) They lack the self-awareness to determine the role they played in their previous failed relationship, so that they may learn from what they possibly did wrong... or just learn not to automatically blame their partner if you (in general) didn't do anything... sometimes people just aren't a fit.

2) They're incapable of not trash talking someone they claimed to love and were intimate on multiple levels. There's being truthful, but this is lack of tact bordering on complete disrespect. Who wants to be with someone who trashes their exes?

3) They just gave you a warning. Get involved with this person, and you're next. No thanks!

[(Anonymous)]

Right...
Or maybe when people talk to you, you should listen to what they say.

[(Anonymous)]

Ayrt

I don't get why you don't think I listen to what people say to me.

Just because the only people I've ever had trash talking their partners to me were men with female partners whose body language said they were interested in me. I haven't had any women trash talk their partners to me, which is different than theanon I was answering, so I theorized a reason.

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry about that actually, I've had severely bad misunderstandings in the past about this very thing, so I kinda jumped the gun on my comment;;
I guess I'll still stick to it as a reminder that not everyone has the same meaning when they say something to you.
But, yeah;; I kinda misread what you said there...