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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-13 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #4332 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4332 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
I never liked it because it felt like a cage, being "forced" to fall in love with someone and trapped with them forever whether either of you liked it or not, instead of love/partnering being a choice. But I can readily admit I have issues, so.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
I get where you're coming from but for me, at least, part of the soulmate concept is that, not just are you destined to love this person, but they're the perfect person for you to love - the person that, given perfect knowledge and choice, you would choose. So that kinda gets around that issue to me.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
+1 I've always imagined soulmates as being the person that has the potential to make you happiest, and to bring out the best in you.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-14 10:44 am (UTC)(link)
This. As someone who never especially wished to be in a relationship (I'm not completely opposed to it either, it's more of a "eh, maybe, if I meet someone who makes it feel worth it, but I feel completely satisfied already and if I never do I won't be sad about it at all), it just feels extremely creepy and trapping.

You could argue that in a universe where soulmates are a thing I *would* meet that one person that makes it feel worth it, but it's the fact that it would be an inescapable certainty that makes it the opposite of something I'd look forward to.