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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-11-20 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #4339 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4339 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Suits]


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[Fantastic Beasts 2, Toby Regbo]


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[Chicago PD]


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[Close Encounters of the Third Kind]


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[Gerard and Mikey Way, formerly of My Chemical Romance]


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Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2018-11-21 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
I do have help but it’s honestly still overwhelming. I’m 25 and can barely take care of myself. And my mom isn’t heartless, but there are a few factors on why I feel like I can’t talk about it to her which are: she’s very prideful and tough to a fault - I have to keep reminding her that she can’t just tough out a spinal fracture and she’s allowed to take painkillers, it doesn’t make her weak - and so that definitely colors her perception of how you deal with mental illness. Also, she is going through an even tougher time. She prides her independence, and I know this whole experience is traumatic for her, on top of some of her own depression issues. and so I worry if I talk about how hard this is on me she will feel guilty, or just won’t be in a mental place to feel sympathetic?

Idk it’s a complicated situation and everything sucks

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2018-11-21 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
Hmmm. I can definitely see where you might've nailed this... she doesn't sound like she's in a good place to be sympathetic. I hope you find someone closer to you who is. Failing that, please come back and let us know how you're doing. It doesn't solve everything, but sometimes just having a place to vent about the shit in your life helps.