[ SECRET POST #4348 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #4348 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Greg Sanders from CSI and Jennifer Jareau from Criminal Minds]


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03.
[She-Ra]


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04.
[Downton Abbey]


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05.
[Red Dead Redemption 2]


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06.
[Undertale]


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07.
[The Final Table]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 11 secrets from Secret Submission Post #622.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

To someone who has said that they don't want children? How about, "Okay."

Parents are not obligated to try to convince anyone other than themselves that parenthood is the best thing ever.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, I didn't know this person was someone who said they didn't want to have children considering that is NO WHERE IN THE COMMENT OR SECRET.

[(Anonymous)]

The secret maker specifically mentions unplanned pregnancies and "those who openly don't want children."

[(Anonymous)]

So you think that someone who "openly doesn't want children" really does want children and is just looking for someone to convince them? Sounds about right.

[(Anonymous)]

No, sounds like a testy assumption on your part and another "all parents are pushy and insulting to non-parents".

No, we aren't. Most of us couldn't give a damn about your choices.

[(Anonymous)]

You sound kind of touchy. Rough day with the kids?

[(Anonymous)]

This. I love dogs, but I also recognize that there are plenty of people out there who don't love or want dogs, so if someone says they don't want a dog, that's fine. It's not my place to convince them that dogs are great and that they should get a dog. I don't understand why people can't understand that the same thing holds true for kids.

[rosehiptea]

I'm a parent but I really don't get that. Why would I even want to have an opinion on whether or not someone else has kids?

[philstar22]

This. No one has to force their own life choices on others. And generally, it is not socially acceptable to do so. Except for parents. Parents are allowed to tell everyone else they should have kids, and it somehow isn't seen as rude even though it is pretty rude.

[(Anonymous)]

someone once said something like this to me and i told them i can't afford to properly raise kids. that seemed to make them drop the subject.

[philstar22]

You're lucky. There are people I know who would not be deterred by that. I'm hoping that now that I physically can't have them, that will shut them down. I hope.

[(Anonymous)]

You will then get, "Oh but there's always adoption!"

[(Anonymous)]

My carer at the special-needs adults school said I should have kids to help me put my life together HOW ABOUT NO?!

[(Anonymous)]

Rubbish. Of course it's rude, and no parents I know (and I know a lot) would think otherwise.