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[ SECRET POST #4358 ]

⌈ Secret Post #4358 ⌋

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Things you'very been burning like to share.

I have the weirdest office crush going on. This guy isn't my usual type but there's something about him that says Shakespearean actor which I find really hot? Trust me this is not a normal feature of my fantasy life. But I totally want to see him dressed in Elizabethan garb and to let him do things to me.

The whole thing is so bizarre that every time I see him i'm torn between lust and face palming.

This actually made me laugh, so thanks for sharing, OP. XD

If I were younger and/or I felt like anyone would take me even a little bit seriously, I would identify as non binary. But no one would, so I just keep these feelings a secret

<3

I believe you.

Seconding anon above me. I believe you. I believe you know your experience and how you feel better than any one else, because OF COURSE YOU DO, and that damn it, if you say you're non binary then that's true.

And frankly, even if you were somehow mistake, so what? It'd still be true of how you experience yourself right now, and what skin off my nose is it to simply support that until such time as you declare otherwise? I mean, really, truly, I believe you. But I just don't understand why people act like it's such a burden supporting people in their declared identity. Like, "Oh my god, what if they're WRONG and they DUPE me into believing them??!" Like, huh? Were you paying them some kind of non-binary tax all this time or something? Did it cost you something to just believe them?

Some people think "nonbinary" isn't real, and that its existence harms transgender people by causing people to misunderstand how transgenderism works.

My personal opinion here is that those people can go screw

Ayrt - yeah dog that’s why I just said I keeping it a secret

I don't think it's not real, per se. I personally, have just never had it explained to me in a way that makes sense (to me). Every explanation I've had from someone about NB identity boils back down to gender norms and societal expectations of those gender norms (ie girls wear dresses, boys like cars).

At the end of the day though, you do you, because how you identify literally does not affect me in the slightest and if it helps YOU, then go wild.

If you're over 30 and AMAB it's a struggle not to get clocked in the middle-aged queen zone.

I think I may have a painkiller addiction, at least a little. I have several chronic pain issues, some of which I've had painkillers prescribed for. It isn't like I take them every day or feel I have to take them. But I go to them too easily for pain levels that don't necessarily need them. And sometimes I use them to help me sleep when I have a little pain.

I'm honestly not sure how to deal with this. Because there are times when I do genuinely need them. I haven't quite crossed the line into full-on addiction, but the risk is there. And this past time I had to take them for a longer period (should have been 2 weeks), I ended up taking them a few days longer just to avoid dealing with withdrawal.

Talk to someone, anon. Get yourself some help before it gets worse.

The fact you're aware of this is a point away from forming an addiction.

It's important to take into account where, when, and how you feel when you grab the medicine you might not need to take at that moment. Try to distinguish those periods, and control yourself when you feel the need to grab another pill.
The drug is addicting, no doubt about it, but you'll only face withdrawl if you take it on a regular, day to day basis. Of course, I don't know what drug you're on, and I'm only talking by physical standards... A mental addiction can be much worse, as you can convince yourself of the side effects your body might not have otherwise, plus a number of other issues...

My advice is for you to talk to the doctor who prescribed you the medication, come clean on your fears. They should help you on not becoming an addict.

in ten years when my cats are gone and my favorite series ends, I plan to empty my bank accounts and disappear off the grid. a cabin in the woods, an island in the Pacific or Caribbean, I don't know yet. but I feel like having to work for my food and shelter would be a good way to live out the rest of my days, away from people and technology. like, man, I'm getting old and I finally understand the appeal of crazy hermit life.

Start researching how to live solo off the grid now, then.

already done. I'm sure my browser bookmarks would scare people.

I haven't had sex in fifteen years. (I'm pretty old.) I haven't exactly been out there a lot trying to get sex but I still feel pretty pathetic. I mean if I didn't want sex at all it would be one thing but that's not the case.

I haven't had sex ever and, yeah, lotta worthlessness

I just realized it's been nearly that long for me.

I don’t want a boyfriend. It’s not something I’ve ever cared about and I feel like I have to pretend I’m interested in dating so people won’t think there’s something wrong with me. I just want more friends.

Are you possibly aromantic? Do you not care about having a romantic relationship at all? I'm an aro and I've never pretended otherwise. I don't know your situation but faking a relationship doesn't end well for anyone involved.

You are absolutely not alone.

I'm a virgin at 33, and the only thing bothering me about that situation is the ever-lingering question about what the hell kind of story I'm going to tell if someone asks me about my previous sex life.

I'm a virgin at 35 and I don't care. I don't have any interest in dating (if I had the money and the ability, my bff and I would buy a house and move in together for companionship) but I don't have an interest in romance or dating, and the thought of sex is just blech to me.

I roll my eyes at people who have big fucking crises over inappropriate attractions/crushes. We're not living in a rom-com or tragic opera, and you're probably not going to die if you keep it under your hat.

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