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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-09 03:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #4358 ]


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Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-09 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, I was inviting you to elaborate. But if you'd rather not, okay.
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Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2018-12-09 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I just don't like the word? It sounds stupid. Especially when people use it for stupid shit that all adults do. Good for you, you called a doctor and made an appointment.

Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-10 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I just don't like the word? It sounds stupid.

Fair enough.

Good for you, you called a doctor and made an appointment.

I mean, good for you for not struggling with it (not even saying that in a snarky way, just, good for you). But that stuff is hard for some people. Whether they're diagnosed with something or they're not, it can feel like too much. A never ending deluge. Like that super internet-famous Hyperbole And A Half comic, the "This is Why I'llNever Be An Adult" one.
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Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2018-12-10 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
See I am fine with people being proud they are able to do something that took them a long time to do. I didn't start driving until I was 28.

If someone with social anxiety told me, "I was able to get over that fear to call a doctor." I'd be happy for them.

If they told me, "I did some great adulting today and called a doctor." I'd roll my eyes at them.

Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-10 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

I mean...it's your right to dislike a term. But so many people I know with social anxiety and other mental health issues use it. It seems...ungracious to insist that those people have to avoid a term that might make it more light hearted and easier to voice aloud in order to avoid your contempt.

Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-10 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
But so many people I know with social anxiety and other mental health issues use it. It seems...ungracious to insist that those people have to avoid a term that might make it more light hearted and easier to voice aloud

Thanks for being empathetic anon. This is really understanding and kind.
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Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2018-12-10 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Where did I say people can't use it? Can you link it?

Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-10 08:18 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I agree with what the anon above me says. I am not the anon below me.

Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

(Anonymous) 2018-12-10 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
Good for you, you were a prick. Maybe grow up and take the entire tree out of your ass before you choke on it.
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Re: Things people say that drive you nuts

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2018-12-10 12:13 pm (UTC)(link)
That is not very adulting of you!