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Re: The gripe thread
(Anonymous) 2018-12-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)Re: The gripe thread
(Anonymous) 2018-12-12 03:13 am (UTC)(link)Re: The gripe thread
(Anonymous) 2018-12-12 11:27 am (UTC)(link)Otherwise, ask for a different placement, if it's available. If there's an area in your workplace away from them, where you feel like you can work better from there- just ask. You don't need to say anything about the person in general, but might get moved if you say there are too many distractions where you work right now.
Aside from that, is she talking to you specifically, or including you at all in her concerns? If she is, then try and befriend her, mention it subtly, make it as a joke that their diet might not be helping their situation. Keep it light? Or just tell her you need to focus on what you're doing at the moment, you're sorry, but you need to deal with your occupation at the moment.
Be honest?
Re: The gripe thread
(Anonymous) 2018-12-12 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)Management rarely lets her leave. She vents about it to me and I just say things like hmm maybe try drinking more water, but then she goes and gets a big coffee. Sigh. I work with her two or three days a week so it's not an everyday occurrence, but when she starts on it she doesn't stfu. :/
Re: The gripe thread
(Anonymous) 2018-12-12 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)...;; Ehh- I don't recommend it;; But I remember working with someone kinda like that once before. I got so fed up (and couldn't convince myself to be rude;;) so I just started being overly nice instead. And I guess it came across as a little bit /forcible/, or /intense/, since I like really didn't like them. I'm not exactly sure what it was, but they pretty much left me alone after that!;;
Hopefully things turn out better for you;;! (even if even I don't recommend my advice;;)
Re: The gripe thread
I have very little filter when someone starts complaining to me about self-caused problems. I don't think I could bite my tongue enough to keep from saying "maybe if you didn't eat shit you wouldn't feel like shit" at some point. Thankfully I don't have a job where I'm expected to be nice to random coworkers, and I've developed a reputation for being a ruthless hard-ass so it wouldn't seem out of line for me to be a big meanie.