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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-25 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #4374 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4374 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Disney/Doctor Who crossover]


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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]


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(Markiplier and his friend Wade)


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[Dumplin' on Netflix]


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[Daredevil]


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[Criminal Minds S03E13 "Limelight"]










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Re: DA

[personal profile] thewakokid 2018-12-26 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok, I think we need to clear up the key misunderstanding here: "I'm suicidal for [x] reason" is not suicide baiting

Suicide baiting is if a person tells you they are suicidal for [x] reason, you come back with "Well [x] reason is a very good reason to kill yourself. Why don't you will yourself?"

It is baiting someone who is suicidal into killing themself.

That, I have never done which is may main point.

But side points have been brought up and I'd like to address them too.

"obsessing over the most negative possible interpretations of feminism"

Is not what I am doing. I am talking about 1 specific incident that shows one specific mindset that is found, imo, exclusively in a branch of feminism. I am, in point of far, saying that my comfort in relation to this mindset is that it is NOT the wide held view.

"not engaging with people who try to engage with you in good faith about feminism and mental health"

Like who?

I mean, unless you're talking about all the shitty comments and kind comments I got last night while I was sleeping, I didn't want to respond to everyone when I woke up so I made a separate comment thanking the nice people and telling the cunts to go bugger themselves.

Since I woke up I responded to everyone. Even the people who're not exactly doing anything in good faith.

"catastrophizing"

Might be fair to say I was doing that last night when I was feeling low. I'm sorry I guess?

"not taking your own mental health seriously. And doing those things over a very long period of time"

I mean... you don't know what I am doing for my mental health. What you do know is that when people on FS come to me saying "You're mentally Ill, you need to get help" I tell them to go bugger them-self, because, I think you must be able to see that when people online do that, they are not concerned about helping you. They do not what you to take your mental health seriously, they want to shame you for what you said, it's a cunts way of saying "I disagree with you, but I also want to make people not take you seriously and imply that you're not just wrong, but fundamentally broken" and make it look like they care about mental health. I mean... you know this, right? You know when people say that they are not giving you healthcare advice. they are attacking you. I know you know all that, there is no plausible deniability there.

You KNOW that, but what you don't know is what I am doing for my mental health.

When someone says "You're mentally ill you need to get some help" and I don't respond with "You're right, my opinion IS invalid, I will disapear until I think the same things you think" that is not me ignoring my mental health.