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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-04 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #4383 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4383 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Queer Eye, "Dega Don't"]


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[Fantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald]


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[Dynamo aka Steven Frayne (magician)]


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[Trillion: God of Destruction]


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08. [SPOILERS for Tidelands season 1 finale]




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09. [WARNING for discussion of rape]
https://i.imgur.com/rJDntrN.png
[Goblin Slayer anime, linked for rape]
























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #627.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Have you personally ever known someone to change for the better?

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-01-05 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
My sister. Went from a complete bully and control freak when we were kids to a functioning adult with progressive views that mostly line up with mine. She's still kind of bossy and controlling, but not nearly the way she was as a kid.

Me in terms of homophobia. Honestly, I just didn't know. Conservative Christian background and all. Denied I was even into women and judged anyone who was open about it. It was a gradual process, and I'm certainly not perfect. But fandom started me thinking about it for myself, and I've come around.

Also me in terms of mental health. When my depression was at its worse, I couldn't function. I flunked an entire semester of college. Nearly flunked quite a few high school classes and only barely passed even though I'm pretty smart. Ended up spending a month in a mental hospital. Meds have been a big part of it, but I also learned coping mechanisms and how to work through it (still not perfect at that). Honestly, where I am mentally now, ten years ago I might have gone into a tailspin and just stopped doing work.