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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-17 07:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4396 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4396 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Orwell: Ignorance is Strength]


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03.
[Russell Howard, "Recalibrate"]


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[D. L. Hughley, Jimmy Carr and Katherine Ryan on The Fix on Netflix]


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[A Star is Born]


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[John Malkovich as Hercule Poirot in The ABC Murders]


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[Andrew Knowlton, restaurant editor for Bon Appétit magazine and host on The Final Table]


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08.
[Exo/Cross Fire - Fonda Lee]








Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2019-01-18 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
+100

The inconsiderate thoughtlessness comment is spot on. When someone tramples your known boundaries or is just flagrantly rude to you, sometimes you need a little time to just be angry. You're not ready to communicate toward a solution, you're not interested in patiently spelling out the problem so someone who is less socially/emotionally developed can understand where they went off track. But life goes on! You still have to obligations, still live with that person, still have to interact!

People need to give folks the time to just BE ANGRY and then calm down before they expect a rational, non-emotional response.