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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-18 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4397 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4397 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[She-Ra: The Princesses of Power]



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[Mystic Messenger]


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04. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe episode "Escapism"]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]

[Utawarerumono]


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06. [WARNING for discussion of animal abuse]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



















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(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course there are a lot of people out there who claim that women commonly say no but mean yes. That's how they justify raping those women.

"No means yes" is pretty damn uncommon outside of negotiated play. What's a lot more common is genuine ambivalence - I want to but I shouldn't, I kinda want to but X and Y factors mean I also kinda don't want to - which should be taken as a no, or outright "no" being ignored because some asshole wants to get off.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-19 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Me: If people do X that's dangerous for everyone.
You: Hardly anybody does X.
Me: Ok, but even so, the people who do do X need to handle it differently because it's dangerous for everyone.
You: Hardly anybody does X. Most people do Y.
Me: No shit. Not really my point though.

You have a bit of an issue with talking past people. It's weird.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-20 07:11 am (UTC)(link)
People playing coy are not the problem. Rapists are the problem.