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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-01-27 02:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #4406 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4406 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
I don't even understand what your complaint is.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
I think they want us to pick a side instead of daring to have respect and empathy for everyone?

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
It's more that I'm shocked that this place isn't just a den of misogynists who whiteknight men to hell and back because sometimes it sure seems like it.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
So your complaint is, basically, you want us to be more radfem?

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
No, I'd prefer this place be consistent with its values.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
But what's the actual inconsistency?

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
Misogyny = okay, unless it's someone criticizing female rape fantasies, misandry = not allowed on any level, unless it's someone criticizing female rape fantasies.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
But what do you actually have in mind as an example of misogyny that's considered OK by people here? That's the part that I really don't understand.

And also, tbh, I don't think that this thread is actually misandric but IDK

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
It's either an MRA idiot who thinks blaming men who rape people for being rapists instead of blaming their victims is misandry, or it's a troll pretending to be said MRA idiot.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
No, I've just seen anons on here attack other anons for saying men are scary or frightening or to blame for rape fantasies being dangerous. Or that anons can't trust men because they fear they see all women as subhuman or beneath them. Stuff like that is going to result in dogpiling because how dare you imply men aren't angels.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
people here defend wako, that's more than enough proof tbh

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
The kickboxing thing? What? Where? When?

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 08:49 am (UTC)(link)
don't be fucking obtuse, wako is the absolute poster child for anti-feminist "centrist" reddit-tier bullshit. and people here will defend him to the bone despite the disgusting things he spews, because this comm has a serious "i'm not like other girls, i'm a cool girl" problem.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Literally none of that turns up when I google “wako”

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
welcome to the community, then, first-timer! this isn’t a googleable person, this is a named user who posts his garbage here. he’s a fucking asshole.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
His icon did ping me as a red flag.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I thought you were talking about boxing or whatever too until I remembered he exists.

Anon said below that he's suicidal and no one deserves suicide bait, but. He really should kill himself if he seriously believes and endorses the shit he espouses.

Wako, if you're reading this: do the world a favor and neck yourself.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I find him immature and annoying, but generally avoid telling him to foad because he seems like he’s occasionally suicidal, and no-one deserves suicide-baiting. I ignore most of his blatant troll bait, tbh.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
Several female anons saying they've never had any female friends because girls are awful to them, that women spaces are catty and horrible, some of the secrets being gung ho about abusing women or finding it hot (we don't know what the gender ratio is, so it very well could be men making these secrets), the rampant attacking of women who voice that they find these fantasies uncomfortable, etc. I forget what the context was or why it even came up, but I remember opening up here about how I have really distorted views of heterosexual sex because I've seen soooo many men equate being penetrated as pathetic or weak or submissive by default and it's really messed up my ability to trust men, and rather than get any sort of empathy, I was "not all men'd" until the thread got frozen. Even a couple weeks ago, when someone said they don't support rape fantasies because men use it against women, someone jumped in with "hey, women perpetuate rape culture too, it's not just men!!". Because goodness knows, you can't imply men ever do anything awful.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
This place is a collection of ever-changing people who are also engaged in on-going learning so good luck with that dumbass wish anon

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
I thought this place was just an aging, ever shrinking relic where only fandom grandmas come to vent about current fandom politics and tumblr.

(Anonymous) 2019-01-28 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
Well I’m gay, dong have aids, and I’m new in town