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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-01 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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08. [SPOILERS for Crazy Ex Girlfriend]



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09. [SPOILERS for You]
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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's a safe assumption that people sharing an email address will both read the emails sent to that address.
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Re: Advice

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-02 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Really? When it is labeled as specifically for one of them? That's weird to me.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
You might try being more specific in the future. E.g. "For Mom only - Dad please do not read".
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Re: Advice

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-02 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I actually just had a conversation with dad about that. He says he's always going to read all their emails and that they never keep secrets from each other. So nope, they don't believe in privacy.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
da

Well, now you know. I personally think that's weird. There's a difference between 'keeping secrets from each other' and 'not discussing something private that someone else told you in confidence.'

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
This. In this circumstance, what you told your mother was not HER 'secret' to share with him. Maybe they do share everything about each other, but confidences from other people are not in the same category IMO.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this seems a bit rigid to me. Especially because you're their child. As their child, your emotional needs should be just as important to them as their own, IMO.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
jsyk, whether or not it's a thing people do, i think that its just rank. if your child asks you to respect their privacy you do that...

Re: Advice

[personal profile] hey_hey_hey 2019-02-02 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
lol right?