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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-01 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
I think people who tell their partner everything are normal, and I also think people who don't tell their partner everything are normal. It's just one of those "some do and some don't" things.

Personally, I think I would lean towards the "we tell each other everything" side, but if someone really close to me needed to get a secret off their chest and it was important to them that it stay between just us, I think I would be able to do that for them.

Also, not everything needs to come up with an SO. Like, if a friend was complaining to me about some kind of vaginal problems she was having, I doubt that would come up with my (theoretical) SO - because why would it? OTOH, if I had a fight with a friend, then I'd probably talk about it with my SO in detail, presuming it upset me.

Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Like, if a friend was complaining to me about some kind of vaginal problems she was having, I doubt that would come up with my (theoretical) SO - because why would it?

If I mentioned to a friend that I had a yeast infection and she told her husband, I wouldn't feel betrayed or embarrassed, but I would wonder why the heck she thought her husband would be interested in hearing about it.