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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-01 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #4411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Advice

(Anonymous) 2019-02-02 12:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know what kind of relationship you may have with your parents, but in the way you describe it, it sounds like your father simply looked at the message because of the argument you had with him.
It doesn't seem like this kind of thing has happened before, or at least by such a scale. So there is a chance, given your mother's incapacitated atm, that your father was simply opening the messenger for her, and happened across the message...? In either case, his excuse seems to be just that, an excuse.

To answer your question frankly, it really depends person to person. The same way someone might not share the secrets of a childhood friend, another might share the secret with their SO to ask for their advice on the matter. I imagine that as parents they'd talk about you with each other none the less, not discussing every last detail, but sharing their feelings all the same.
From what it sounds like it's normal IMO.

I highly doubt your father would read each and every e-mail addressed to your mother, or vice versa, there just wouldn't be any real need. It'd take a certain measure of paranoia, and disrespect for that to happen. And if it boils down to just that, I imagine you'd know about it by the first e-mail or two...

(I hope your mom gets better btw! <333)