[ SECRET POST #4412 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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04.
[Criminal Minds]


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[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 50 secrets from Secret Submission Post #632.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Should I become a single mother

[chamonix]

I really think it's unavoidable having a fantasy if what your children might be like and hoping you have a particular kind of relationship with them. That's just so fundamentally human and part of the mental processed around impending parenthood. The important part is to be aware of the fact that it IS a fantasy, and to be open above all things to your child developing their own personality independent of your vision. The OP's posts in general give me the vibe that she is pretty aware of her own thought processes.

Re: Should I become a single mother

[(Anonymous)]

*sigh* I'm not saying never have dreams and fantasies about your future life with your kids. I'm saying it's not a great idea for that fantasy to be the MAIN reason why you decide to have one. I think the OP is smart to think about this, but the problem with dearly held fantasies is that they cloud one's judgment and even when you think you're being rational, sometimes you're just not.

Re: Should I become a single mother

[chamonix]

Sure, I can see that. As long as OP is reasonably self-aware (which she seems to be).

Re: Should I become a single mother

[(Anonymous)]

Fingers crossed. Raising kids is hard as shit even when you have a partner and plenty of financial and emotional support AND your head on straight.

Re: Should I become a single mother

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed. Even when you have all your ducks in a row, you could still have PPD, still have shit hit the fan, still find out you were more in love with the IDEA of having a kid than actually having one, or maybe your kid is sick and screams ALL THE TIME. It's a roll of the dice, tbh.