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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-02 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #4412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4412 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid]


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03.
[Haunted (on Netflix), "The Slaughterhouse"]


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04.
[Criminal Minds]


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05.
[The Promised Neverland]


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[British rapper Big Narstie]


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07.
[Criminal Minds season 4, episode 13, "Bloodline"]


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[Angelina Jolie in Lara Croft: Tomb Raider]












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Re: Should I become a single mother

(Anonymous) 2019-02-03 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, even as a couple, having a broad support network is so important. The first couple of years of having a baby are some genuine hell on earth, I'm gonna be completely honest with you here. You lose so much sleep that you feel sick and run down all the time, you'll lose time for your hobbies and then you'll be so used to foregoing them that it becomes harder and harder to take them back up again, you're having to balance keeping up with chores on top of everything-- and this is with a partner and a swathe of family and friends to help! Having those other people in my life is honestly the only reason I retained my sanity. Having my daughter is wonderful now that she's a little more independent and we're able to have a little bit of our own lives back, but I genuinely cannot imagine bearing that kind of stress as a single parent without a big support network underneath me.