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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Re: Based on #6

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-03 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Not a falling out, but they just...basically left fandom and stopped communicating. A few people have done this, though one I know for sure was in some really dire straights both financially and mentally, and I can only hope they are okay out there, somewhere.

Re: Based on #6

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I had that too. And yeah, a few people who I know were in trouble and can only hope are okay. I hope your former friend is. FWIW, I have a friend who, in her recovery process, seems to have stepped down from LJ. So maybe it was like that? A lot of social media can actually be very straining in bad times. (I say this based on personal experience. LJ really wasn't giving me what I needed, but looking back that wasn't really fair to my friends.)
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Re: Based on #6

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-04 01:26 pm (UTC)(link)
They kept up a kind of communication, occasionally posting, and also emailing me with updates and things. Seemed genuinely to enjoy and really need the contact. The last email was basically 'this situation is changing like this and hopefully i'll be living at this place and getting this job and things should be okay'.

That was...four years ago, I think, and since then, it's been utter radio silence. They weren't exactly in a good space, mentally, so it just...make me sad, sometimes, to think about, and anxious. I just hope things worked out in a good way.