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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Re: Based on #6

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know that it was a real falling out. I just slowly decided I wasn't going to let her take advantage of me anymore and said no every time she tried. We don't hang out anymore because it turns out that's all she ever wanted to do. She once neglected to book her own accomodation for a convention because she assumed I'd let her stay in mine that I'd paid for, and share a bed despite the fact she smoked and I am asthmatic. She didn't ask or anything, just let me know on the day that she expected me to let her stay because she would totally do the same for me. Except I would never ask someone to do that?

Re: Based on #6

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
"... I'd totally do the same for you..." is a huge guilt trip and manipulative technique. She wouldn't, of course. Otherwise she would've booked her own damn hotel room and offered you a place to crash. You were entirely right in deciding to pick off the leech.

And I hope you didn't let that bloodsucking ingrate stay.

Re: Based on #6

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't in the end because I was out most of the night with other friends and went back to theirs. I think they had already decided she was bad news and didn't want her hanging out with them. Looking back on it I think they decided to save me from my own pushover ways. Thanks friends! I ended up having so much fun that trip and that was the wakeup call. My life was better without her.