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[ SECRET POST #4413 ]

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You consistently act like an asshole so you consistently attract asshole responses, what's the mystery supposed to be?

Do I really, tho?

And the mystery is "Is that one super happy anon hater someone I have personally wronged, or just one deeply invested rando? Or many deeply invested randos?

Do I really, tho?

Yes. You do.

How?

Do you really think you don't?

Well... I'm not malicious. You can't be an ass hole by accident, imo. The intention needs to be there.

You need to take active steps towards being malicious be an ass-hole. I don't think I've ever done that.

That's a very weird definition of "being an asshole" and not one I find accurate. You are consistently rude and thoughtless and generally unpleasant to interact with. Feel free to slap on some other label to that if you have such a problem with the word "asshole." It's not going to change the fact that your own behavior has simply been causing other people to react in kind, and acting like it's some huge mystery is very stupid.

Rude? Really? How?

Thoughtless, possibly although more often than not the conflict seems to be more that I have thought about it, and have come to a different conclusion to someone else, which they find unacceptable

Unpleasant? Purely subjective.

You're right of course, part of it is how I am and how other people do not like it... but again I do not attempt to be hostile or mean to others... at least I try not to be the first person to be mean... but have you seen the way some people here act? Some people act the same way to me that they act to other far more easy to love users.

I think part of it is just a personality clash, but part of it ... Just a part of it... is there is a culture around here of hating things and people and opinions that are not your own.

You are either deliberately being obtuse to your own behaviour or playing dumb. Either way you and this schtick are getting old.

Alternatively you have a very bad read on my behavior, I still have yet to see a list of my crimes, btw. and given FS is a bit of a hive of toxicity, where self-righteous indignation can spread like a dose of the fucking clap, I'm perfectly aware and correct about my own motivations and actions, being the person in the best position to judge them, and I am being honest about them when I say i'm not out to be malicious... And it's all the rage-farmers up in this joint that are being disingenuous?

W@W

My dude, I'm really not here to have a huge in-depth discussion with you about all your attributes and the degree to which you may or may not possess them, you just asked a question and I felt I had an answer. Whether you are capable of accepting its validity is your problem now.

Fair enough.

I don't feel that I have enough reason to believe you're right, so in the absence of further evidence, I'll have to disagree with you.

You don't have to be malicious to be an asshole, what matters is you learn when people call you out on it.

You haven't once, though.

Right, but what are you supposed to learn? To do what one group tells you to do?

What about the other group who now hates you for siding with the people on the other side.

Vocal pissed off people will react to me the exact same way regardless of who I choose to "Learn" from. And again, I'm using learn to mean "Shut up, I think this way so so must you, if you don't agree you're not willing to learn and therefore an asshole"

Which is why I think just doing your own thing and not actively trying to hurt people... Well, I think that would diqualify me from being an asshole.

You can be an asshole by accident

"By accident" as in you don't realize you're an asshole

What rock have you been living under

Ok.

Then you calling me an asshole makes you an asshole

It hurts my feelie weelies. Why are you being an asshole?

For the record, no, I don't think you are being an asshole.

I think you're wrong, but you're not, as far as I can tell, trying to be an asshole, your not trying to hurt me or be malicious, so you are not an asshole.

There’s no mystery he got stuck in the developmental phase of seeking out negative attention because it’s easier to “troll” than accepting everyone’s apathy or becoming someone people actually want to engage with. Of course he wants to talk about how very much everyone doesn’t like him so he can feel like people are invested in him.

Nonono, you misunderstand.

I don't believe people here don't like me. I know I am much beloved. I make this place better. But on the other hand I don't particularly mind the few sad people who have a problem with me. I'd like to understand them better. For medical science. Hopfully we can fix whatever deficiency is afflicting them.

But you think I seek out negative attention? How so? What have I done you find so distasteful about me? I mean specifically. Not just "Well you're always an asshole" specifically how?

I hope you have a great evening.

Thank you! I'm was a little bored, I admit, Feeling better now. Might get some sleep soon, tho.

Hope you're having a good one too.

Thanks, I had a pretty good one!

Right on the money.

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