[ SECRET POST #4413 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Comments

Re: So any guesses...

[(Anonymous)]

And apparently the comment wasn't bad, it was my being male and making the comment that was the problem. I don't think this is on me as much as people pretend.

I thought it was condescending and weird, and the gender dynamic probably exacerbated those feelings. That's how I personally felt about it. I can't speak for anyone else. I know I'm not looking for anything to be offended at, and it feels like you're using that as an excuse. But - again - you're your own boss.

Re: So any guesses...

[thewakokid]

Well, personally I think that's a wrong read of what I was saying, but I can't fault you for how it feels to you. You also are your own boss.

If it helps, I was going for weird, weird was exactly my intention. Condescending, not so much. Maybe playful would be more how I was meaning it.

And yeah, I don't think everyone is just looking to be offended, but I do think it's a lot of people.

Re: So any guesses...

[(Anonymous)]

It's not them, it's you. People don't look to be offended, you do offensive shit and then double down on it because apparently that's easier for you than either just disengaging or saying "sorry, I didn't mean it that way".

Incidentally, the fact that you pretty much never disengage or apologize for upsetting someone is what makes your claims that you're not deliberately being an asshole pretty damn unbelievable.

Re: So any guesses...

[(Anonymous)]

"you do offensive shit"

Examples?


Also "When I keep responding to you, you keep responding to me back! What an asshole!

If you didn't want to be an asshole you should just not respond to me when I respond to you!

Or at least only respond telling me I'm right and admitting that you're wrong and apologizing because really if you weren't an asshole you'd just do what I told you because I'm offended by the things you do and it doesn’t matter if you didn’t do anything deserving of an apology!

I’m offended so either don’t respond when I tell you I’m offended, or only respond telling me how right I am and how sorry you are, or else you’re an asshole"

That about the size of it?

Because typically I always have something to say... In response to someone elses comment to me. If you don't disengage, typically neither do I. Two to tango, fam

W@W