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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Re: So any guesses...

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
The comment was not "bad behavior". But a lesbian identifying with another lesbian in a silly way has different connotations than a straight man commenting on his opinion of a lesbian's sexuality, even in a silly way.

For example, seemingly similar comments and behavior were wildly different in intent, motivation, and effect when directed at me from an old, straight, female coworker and a young, straight male classmate. Not because I hate men or something, but because they had very different perspectives and expectations.