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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-04 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yes, if they want me shaved, I'm probably going to ask that it go both ways. But a discussion is different than a demand. I guess I used the wrong word. I might ask in the context of a conversation about likes/dislikes and such. But it would be a conversation. It would be me insisting it because it is their body and I'm not going to dictate anything to them.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, yeah. In that case I totally agree with you, and same. :)

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
For some couples this might work. For me it doesn't. If they want me shaved, the answer is no. Ain't gonna do it. I've tried it in the past and I don't like it.

It's like - "you're hot but you'd be hotter if you had blonde hair. Can you dye it for me?" "you're hot but you'd be hotter if you lost/gained 10 pounds, can you do that for me?" "You're hot but you'd be hotter if you wore clothes I like instead of clothes I don't, can you do that for me?"

I CAN, but I won't. There's plenty of fish in the sea, you will be happier swimming elsewhere.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-04 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
And that's cool. I'd never tell someone they have to or even suggest it outside of a mutual conversation about personal likes. I'd also never say any of those things to a partner because that's not cool. I might say that I find a particular thing attractive because we all have likes and dislikes. But I'd never say that someone would need to do something to be hotter because it is their body and hot is subjective.