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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-03 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #4413 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4413 ⌋

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Re: So any guesses...

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 02:29 pm (UTC)(link)
"How I talk to people" as in tone and intent and meaning of what i am expressing? All the important factors? No not in the slightest

"How I talk to people" in the clinical accuracy of the words I choose? yes. I would not call a woman "My good man" and would not call a man "My good Woman" Everything else stays as close as language allows.

Using this to say "You talk to women differently than you talk to men" would be technically accurate, but a weaselly distinction and lets be honest pretty disingenuous.

Re: So any guesses...

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, that ^ was me - Wako @ Work

Re: So any guesses...

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 02:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Contextualize it however you want that you’d use two different terms of camaraderie that don’t address sexuality directly when talking to a man is part of why it came off as weird that you were headpatting secret OP’s lesbianess and not OP directly.

Re: So any guesses...

(Anonymous) 2019-02-04 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I see, you're talking about the difference between "Dude / Bro" and "Lesbian"

Fair enough but that's just a lack of information. If there was a a nice word for "Straight male" I'd have used that, as it is all I have it the knwledge that they're male, so I went with "Dude and Bro" they are not terms of camaraderie. I used to call dethtoll "Dude and Bro". If for example I was talking about... soldatsasha's taste in women, I would probably use terms like ""Who's a good Soldier boy" or "Who's the Russian with the great taste in women?! Who is it?". If I was someone else talking to Wako, I'd have used "There's a good Troll! Well done on the Taste in women, you little troublemaker". I know the OP was a lesbian, so I used lesbian.

You really are reading way way too much into it.