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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-07 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #4417 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4417 ⌋

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Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make

(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I would think the more problematic thing would be when she tells people to go through all their clothes at once and she says you should do it on your own. I guess most of her clients are able-bodied, but that isn't a thing I can physically do. I've been cleaning out my wardrobe for months and I'm still not done. I need to wait for other people to lift things for me and help me fold things.

Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make

(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
The fuck is problematic about that? If you can't do it a certain way then modify it or don't do it.

Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make

(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
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I was commenting on what I was surprised the tumblr SJWs didn't pick up on. You know. An actual thing that she offers no alternative solutions on in her series, rather than the idea that hoarding (which is bad - causes health and fire risks) is fine and shouldn't be criticised because they don't think any unhealthy behaviour that can be attributed to a mental illness should be "fixed".

There are cleaning resources that aren't Marie Kondo related that offer good ideas for how to clean your space if you're depressed or have physical limitations. I think there are more productive ways to discuss ableism but screeching because you feel judged for being a hoarder isn't one of them.

Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make

(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
I assumed the you should do it on your own part is so that other people can't tell you what you should and shouldn't keep. Which rang true for me since I had dozens of failed attempts at decluttering because my mum would spot something I don't want and insist that I keep it.

Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make

(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. It makes sense not to do it with family or people who have strong ideas about what's best for you. I think a neutral party like a carer or organiser wouldn't cause the same issues though.