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⌈ Secret Post #4419 ⌋

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[Roxane Gay (author)]

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[Pokemon]

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[Jonathan Groff in Mindhunter (formerly King George III in Hamilton)]

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[The ABC Murders]

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[Zac Efron as Ted Bundy in Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil, and Vile]

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[Marcus Wareing, Gordon Ramsay - Burning Point (documentary)]

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[Parks and Recreation, Ben/Leslie]

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It really bothers me.

What bothers me is the word choice of “have” tbh

Agreed. A person isn't a piece of property, they have their own emotions and wants and needs.

OP here. I'm not implying the person I want can't have their own emotions, wants, and needs.

That's just a fact of life. It does bother me to be lonely, to be alone, it bothers me that I have some really deeply entrenched idea that I'm unbearable and unlikable, but the idea that you're not everyone's cup of tea is just reality.

Nope. I scored my girl. Don't mean to rub it in or anything.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n450GmN2Yfk

People give you a lot of shit, and occasionally I am one of those people (no regrets), but I'm genuinely happy for you, Wako.

Yeah me too. I never get tired of hearing people are happy in their relationships.

Yeah, me too.

And I really am. A decade and a half later and she's still fantastic.

Thanks!

Man, I'm one of the people constantly frustrated with you, but I'm glad you have some happiness in your life.

Not at all.

I can't have anyone I want, I never could, and it bothers me a lot.

Good, because you sound like an entitled asshole.

Wow, that's...weirdly hostile.

Eh. This is someone who's weirdly judgemental about other people's looks, but constantly laments that no one who meets her standards will date her because she's an uggo. Never mind that burn victims who are literally missing a third of their faces manage happy relationships -- the problem is obviously that the "good" guys are all so shallow and not that greghousesgf is a miserable bitch who would be a chore to be with even if she was a perfect 10.

This is the OP of the post greghousesgf replied to.
FUCK YOU, GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY POST. DON'T YOU EVER TALK THAT WAY TO GREGHOUSESGF OR ANY OTHER FAN HERE AGAIN.

Re: How bad does it bother you that you can't have whoever you want?

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No, she doesn't!

thank you!

OP here. Why does s/he sound "entitled"?

It's been a few things adding up, but this one reminds me of how more than a few entitled assholes have talked about people they wanted to date. It comes off as dehumanizing, bitter and kinda just all around not great.

OP of post. Same here and it bothers me. I've been alone for most of my life. It sucks. What sucks worse is people that call you "entitled" and think you ought to just force yourself to love/lust for men you don't want and just be pleased with that.

The person I want doesn't even actually exist. He's a fictional character, who in his universe died like 200 years ago, so that bothers me on some level but it's not like even if he would have existed he would have been interested in me.

And people aren't something you can "have" anyway.

I honestly can't imagine a single person who'd actual expect to get anyone/thing they'd ever/possibly want...
So, yeah, no. I'm good with what I got thanks.