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(Anonymous) 2019-02-12 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)and tbh I think, even by today's standards, and even in a fantasy novel, a school administrator being good at dealing with bullying would be a touch unrealistic
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 12:50 am (UTC)(link)Children may feel that they've had a teacher who just didn't like them, or even a teacher who had it in for them. Was it actually that extreme? Probably (hopefully) not. But the child reads about how Snape treats Harry (and most of the Gryffindors) and relates to it very strongly.
Likewise, I think where bullying is concerned, a lot of kids tend to have an innate sort of feeling that they're on their own. Their peers can stand with them, giving them a stronger social stance and making the bullying hurt less. But the adults are out of it. The adults don't know, and wouldn't properly understand it if they did know, and can't be trusted to react as desired even if you told them. A lot of the professors (and perhaps especially McGonagall) reflect that childhood perception of adults. They're like living with elephants: power-having beings who sometimes come to your aid, sometimes are entirely oblivious, and sometimes crush you (while insisting they're crushing you for your own good).
Similarly, I think from a childhood perspective, the adult who low-key conspires to involve you in stuff that other adults shut you out of "for your own good," is a super cool adult who understands you and is probably, like, really wise. And you especially love them if it seems as though they favor you above many of your peers - the cool adult likes you the best, you must be special.
It's only as adults that we gain much real understanding of the nature of adult-child interaction; what responsibilities adults have towards children, and how being an adult rightfully shapes the goods and bads, rights and wrongs of interacting with children.
As adult readers, we recognize that the adults of Harry Potter often do not interact with children as an adult should: Snape is emotionally abusive. McGonagall is often negligent (when it suits the plot) or overly harsh (also when it suits the plot). And Dumbledore allows children to be involved in incredibly dangerous situations, yet doesn't give them enough information to be able to understand what danger they're really in. And he shows pretty blatant favoritism. And I'm sure similar arguments can be made for most of the other adult figures.
But the inappropriate behavior of the adults in Harry Potter has never really bothered me that much, because in my opinion, from a child perspective it feels true and relatable. Perhaps if I hadn't read the books until I was an adult, it would bother me more. But I read the first four books as a 12-year-old, and none of it gave me pause then.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 09:37 am (UTC)(link)the first books are whimsical, fantastical and i think they do that incredibly well. sending a child into an abusive home is horrifying! but maybe it was more about the feeling that no one cared and no one understood and that it was boringly normal, in contrast to the amazing revelation that actually you're a wizard and rich and famous and your *real* parents were perfect cool people
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 01:49 am (UTC)(link)But hey, it could be worse! We *could* be spending our time telling other people what to talk about :D
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 02:12 am (UTC)(link)All anybody seems to what to talk about is how all the once-beloved characters are actually the worst, the once raved-over world-building is actually garbage, and the plots people stayed up all night in a state of ecstatic fanaticism to see through to the end, are actually lazy and lame.
It's not a response I can relate to at all. Maybe it's because I was a fan of the books, but never a "Fan" in the fandom sense of the word. I've never thought the books were perfect, but I always thought the series was an exceptional phenomenon I was lucky to experience as it occurred, and that's still how I feel about it.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 01:58 am (UTC)(link)So maybe the wank never spilled over because no-one knows or cares enough.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-13 02:20 am (UTC)(link)Anyway, thanks for that. Have a great day, OP.
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