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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-14 07:38 pm

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greghousesgf: (House Schroeder)

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-02-15 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
some random nurse I didn't even know started handing me the same shit when I was in the hospital to have one ovary out because it had a big tumor on it (non-cancerous, thank fuck). I told her I'd already had my tubes tied and she went nuts on me, asking me if my parents weren't ashamed of me, etc. bitch.
philstar22: (Default)

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-15 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Good grief. People are so ridiculous about women and their reproductive capablities. Well, people are just ridiculous about women's bodies in general.
greghousesgf: (Boingboing)

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-02-15 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
and when you're stuck in a hospital bed, you're not exactly in a position to make them GTFO.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-15 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
It took so long to find a gynecologist who was even willing to listen to me. And they're the doctors who are supposed to know about this stuff. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I hope that woman gets fired.
greghousesgf: (Hugh Blue Eyes)

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-02-15 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
this was years ago and she was pretty damn old then. Maybe she's dead.
tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-15 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could find one like that here for my daughter. She doesn't want kids and would love a hysterectomy - no more periods!
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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-15 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Good luck. I only found one willing to do it after I'd tried everything else. And she still made me keep one ovary.
tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-15 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Well, i had a hysterectomy when my daughter was...six? I think? And we kept the ovaries so i'd continue to have hormones and not go into some kind of early menopause, etc.

Just in some kind of menopause *now*, I think, if the hot flashes are anything to go by.

They only did it because they thought i had some kind of endometriosis-type issues going on (turns out i was Crohn's, but yay! no more parts.)
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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-02-15 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
I do have endo. I also had uterine fibroids. Symptoms are mostly gone, but I still occasionally get some. I'd have preferred it all gone. I think menopause wouldn't be as bad as all this. But at least it is better now than it was.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-15 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
That's good.

I detest the hot flashes. I wake up sometimes in the middle of night, dripping with sweat. I have to get up and get a towel. It's just so gross.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-15 09:00 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you already know this, but the childfree subreddit has a list of doctors who actually respect their patients' choices.

https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/wiki/doctors
tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-15 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I did not because i don't really do reddit, but thank you so much!
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2019-02-15 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
For fuck's sake!
greghousesgf: (Genius at Work)

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-02-15 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
IKR?