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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-17 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #4427 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4427 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Beast Legends vs. Buzzfeed Unsolved]


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03. [repeat]


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[image is Scarlett Johansson from The Other Boleyn Girl]


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[Josh Homme, Queens of the Stone Age]


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(Sex Education)


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[Tidying up with Marie Kondo]


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(Gay Korean porn maker Seegasm)


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[youtube beauty gurus]


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[Doctor Who, "It Takes You Away"]









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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 51 secrets from Secret Submission Post #634.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-18 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
tbh anything beyond "what's better than one dude? two" is reaching

nobody navel gazes this hard over why guys like lesbian porn

(Anonymous) 2019-02-18 07:04 am (UTC)(link)
because they’re normalized and it’s treated like it’s okay for dudes to like lesbian porn. meanwhile if a women likes slash (not even porn. Just slash) she gets accused of the internalized misogyny and called a deviant fetishizing homophobe because women exploring their sexuality is nasty. Maybe if people didn’t treat women so weird for exploring their sexuality we wouldn’t have to rationalize and navel gaze but that’s not what fandom does. Instead it becomes “you’re a nasty fujoshi who hates women” while missing the fact that fandom inadvertently creates these scenarios where slash is more appealing. Not two dicks good, vagina bad.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-18 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
The most irritating rationale I've seen for why slash is popular is because "women project onto the uke so they can give into their innate desire to be utterly dominated and sought after by men without women getting in the way/being free to feed into shit like 50 Shades but without a woman being the victim of it". Which, how in the fuck does that explain the popularity of visual yaoi among women? The focus is entirely on the uke, sometimes there's not even a dick in the picture, it's literally just the favored character looking sensual and fucked out. Are they telling me we get off to that by pretending we're the character in that doujin getting fucked? Cuz I sure as hell ain't.

I've no doubt there is projection for some women, but I hate that it's used as a universal explanation. Like no, I just like seeing the male character I'm most attracted to and like the most find love with another dude and then get fucked. I like seeing a male character be submissive for once. Sometimes it is that simple.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-18 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been in relationships where I felt like I couldn't even have a fucking opinion on what TV we watched, because he was so taking and my socialized, naturally nurturing ass was so damn giving. ( Like he would probably be willing to change channels, I just never brought myself to suggest it?! *headdesk*)

So yeah this *I like seeing a male character be submissive for once.* rings really fucking true for me.