[ SECRET POST #4428 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4428 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I feel like I get what you're trying to say-- it's not ABOUT being wrong/a dickhead, which all parties may well be, and it's not about hoping racists/homophobes might be less wrong/dickish, it's knowing that they're GOING to take this and use it as a weapon.

If this attack was faked, then someone who was already a racist/homophobe, who was never going to be anything other than a racist/homophobe, the discussion is not about that, but... When someone else is ACTUALLY beaten, the racists/homophobes will hold up this story and say 'oh, that's fake, this isn't a problem in society, shut up about it'.

And people who have never particularly thought about racism/homophobia will say 'oh, people fake being attacked?', and when someone is actually attacked, might question whether THIS attack was fake, pushing the window of acceptable responses to people being beaten towards the side of the racists/homophobes.

And people who are living their lives afraid of being beaten up on the basis of race/sexuality feel like they have fewer people they can trust, leading to isolation, leading to poorer mental health.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT, but yeah. It's like -- if a woman lies about being raped, that doesn't change the fact that women get raped all the time and it's horrible. What it does do is make it less likely that the cops and doctors and other authorities who responded to the false report are going to believe the next woman who tries to report a rape. It's going to create a more hostile environment for people who are already in a difficult situation because it gives ammunition to the assholes of the world, disillusions the baby idealists, and makes the fence-sitters wary of being taken for suckers.

When someone lies about stuff like this, it does not make them worse than the people who perpetrate these kinds of crimes. But it's more disappointing. You expect racists, homophobes, sexists, etc., to fuck you over. You don't expect to be stabbed in the back by someone who should be on your side.

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anon from above

Yes, yes, this is also it. Thank you. Assholes have always been and will always be assholes, but this sort of stuff makes assholes out of fence-sitters. And that's really bad. Really, really bad.

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ayrt

Yes, this is it exactly, thank you so much for putting it into better words. This is honestly too emotional an issue for me and I shouldn't have fought about it. It's just such an incredible step backward in the little progress we've managed to make.