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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-19 05:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #4429 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4429 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Drew Barrymore, Rebel Wilson, Emmy Rossum]


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[Darren MacLean, The Final Table]


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[Kyle XY]


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[The Disney Kink Meme, Tangled, Beauty & the Beast]


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[Daniel Craig as James Bond in Casino Royale]


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[Roswell, New Mexico]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 31 secrets from Secret Submission Post #634.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Right on cue, anons are attacking you for daring to say anything bad about men or their bodies. I wish this shitty site spent half the amount of this energy on defending women.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
nope you showed your hand too early for this to really get rolling.

3/10

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not wrong though.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
lol okay

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, word?

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
lol okay

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, it seems kind of dumb as shit to come into a secret ABOUT A GUY'S BODY and say, "GUYS WHY ARE YOU NOT DEFENDING THE WIMMINS~"

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, there's a thread on this post about assuming a woman is fat based on her being compared to one fat person and two skinny people and yet in this Daniel Craig secret, here is the Hero for Women's Bodies...

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
More like just pointing out that this place seems to be a cesspool of misogyny and cock worshipping. Which really can't be disputed if you've spent any time here at all.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
god you are just so cute in how hard you are trying.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
lmao love how you know you can't dispute it so you resort to trolling. It's okay, anon, we all know the ugly truth you don't want to admit.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
One comment in that thread is potentially negative, and the other nine think OP is pretty based off those pic choices so...

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
...anon who said they're plus sized got one anon responding back. I got like fucking 50 just for saying Daniel Craig looks bloated in my opinion. The contrast is blatant.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
you can't post comments to yourself silly

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
anon who said they're plus-sized also said they were pretty

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
but that secret is about a woman's body and this secret is about a man's body so where are you going to put your Hero for Women's Bodies comment? I think you didn't make the right choice, Skip.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
I... would put it in the secret about women's bodies if there were proportionally negative comments? Like there is literally maybe ONE sort of negative comment in that thread (and only if you think being called plus-sized is negative), and like, 30 over here. So...

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
This seems like a very dubious set of standards?

At least to me, the problem is not just saying that someone is fat. I'm fat. It's not intrinsically an insult. People often use it as an insult, but at the end of the day, some people weigh more than some other people, and that's not fundamentally a negative or insulting thing unless you make it one.

Where I think you run into problems is when you either start making it an insult, or when you start framing it in terms of norms, and standards, and start demanding certain things from people. Nothing in the other conversation touched on body standards. On the other hand, this whole conversation is framed around body standards - what kind of body standards it's reasonable to demand from male actors. Just finding Daniel Craig unattractive, whatever, it's a personal preference. But talking about Daniel Craig being bloated and overweight, like an objective fact, in a thread about what kind of standards we demand from male actors, is implicitly trying to police and enforce those standards.

And, yes, women in Hollywood face much more severe and harsh standards of appearance than men. But trying to police men's appearances does nothing to help eradicate those double standards of beauty. It only entrenches them more.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you think that plus-sized women can't be good-looking? That's honestly fucked up, anon

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Friendly reminder that women who get off to rape fantasies and propogating that fantasy give men more of a reason to hate and abuse them.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
oh you!

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
mmhmm...

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't realize it was non sequitur day.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
just straight-up kool aid man-ing it

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-20 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Like, Jonestown koolaid or breaking through walls koolaid?

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