176- Damn, I feel you there. But ironically I met my current long term gf through fandom/mutual friend 2 years ago, so its not like there aren't ~*~real*~*~ lesbians in fandom. But I agree with you on the negative stereotype of cosplay girls making out etc, etc.

BASICALLY

FUCK THAT SHIT AND BE YOURSELF (especially if you have supportive friends)

Ironic my mom is catholic as hell too...