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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-26 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #4436 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4436 ⌋

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rosehiptea: (Darth)

[personal profile] rosehiptea 2019-02-27 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
It technically doesn't say that he's in the submissive's bedroom, just that he's not in the master bedroom, but that's certainly a reasonable conclusion.

But while I understand that 50 Shades of Grey is messed-up in any number of ways I have to agree with the poster above that it is really not the main problem here.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-27 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
It technically doesn't say that he's in the submissive's bedroom, just that he's not in the master bedroom, but that's certainly a reasonable conclusion.

I just don't know where else he would be? Regardless, your dom husband having a sub is sexual and extramarital. I think part of the schadenfreude for me in that letter is her repeated insistence of "my husband's NONSEXUAL sub", which is just a non sequitur.

Like does she mean there's just no PIV sex between them? GOD, what a trainwreck if this letter is true.

But while I understand that 50 Shades of Grey is messed-up in any number of ways I have to agree with the poster above that it is really not the main problem here.

Agreed. I'd say the letter writer was a clueless dolt, but as someone else mentioned, her husband is the real problem here.

Dear Abby's response was pretty perf. My thoughts exactly, really.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-27 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Non sexual power exchange exists though. Like. That's a thing. There are a LOT of kinks that can have nothing to do with sex.

But yeah, the husband is an ass.

nayrt

(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Mmmmmm...if it's a kink and you're getting off on it, I'd say it's still sexual even if you're not actually ~having sex~ with the other person.

(saying this as somebody who's never had physical sex with anyone but has certainly experienced being aroused by and getting off on being controlled by someone else)