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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-02-27 05:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #4437 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4437 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
This is a weird comment. OP isn't actually doing anything wrong. They just don't want to play in certain kinds of games. It's a valid position and it's also a valid thing to make a secret about feeling weird about.

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
And it's also not like OP asked the DM to do those things

What a fucking weird comment

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
It's a weird secret

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
How is it a weird secret at all

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(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 11:13 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt - because OP admits their expectations are too high but still calls other games 'amateur' because they don't match up with this Perfect Amazing (and evidently unsustainable) game. I totally get that it sucks when a game you like falls through, but when it apparently ruins your enjoyment of any other game? That's something you just have to get over.

Re: the DM, I didn't mean that the player made the DM go that far, but just that it would be exhausting as a DM to keep up that level all the time, and it makes sense that the game fizzled out. Finding another game in that style is likely hard because of that exact burnout, so again, OP needs to figure out how to settle for something that's more realistically playable.

(Anonymous) 2019-02-28 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
It's not really weird at all? There comes a point where perfectionism can interfere with your ability to enjoy things, so you need to either accept that you're probably never going to find the thing you want exactly the way you want it OR you need to learn to lower your standards a little bit so you can have fun with things that aren't perfect.