fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #615 ]

⌈ Secret Post #615 ⌋

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So what would you suggest as a sensitive response to "OMG I RED UR FIC DESPITE ALL THE WARNINGS ON IT AND I THINK UR DISGUSTING AND U SHULD SEE HOW U LIKE IT IN RL!!!!!"?

Well, here's how I would translate "FICTION != REALITY QQ MOAR":

"You're going way too far to suggest that anyone who reads/writes/enjoys rapefic should experience rape themselves, but I understand where you're coming from and that you're speaking out of anger. I'm sorry about what happened to you, but people who read/write/enjoy rapefic generally don't mean to condone or glorify rape itself. I think it has more to do with control that with violence. It's totally understandable that you find it gross/repulsive, but I think it's important that you seperate out your feelings at the fic and your feelings towards the people who write it, because the vast majority of them are probably a lot more sympathetic than you'd think at first glance. Anyway, the fic probably isn't going away so it's something that you'll have to work through."

That is a brilliant way of putting it.

she's channelling the op, apparently.

and you know, all that she said? it's pretty much been said.

over

and

over

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over

again. we are getting a BIT FUCKING TIRED of having to repeat ourselves to every little wounded butterfly who is traumatized on the internet.

yeah, we do tend to lose our sympathy after going through this same goddamned argument AGAIN.

want sympathy? talk to mommy. or a therapist.

How is she channelling the OP? I think she agrees with our viewpoint (yes, I'm one of the "fiction != reality people as well), but I don't think she agrees with how people are attacking the OP for expressing her opinion in a secrets community. If you'd read my other comments in this same thread, you'd know that I certainly know exactly how you feel.

Also, worth pointing out: if you want people to respect your point of view, it might help if you respect theirs first.

Edited 2008-09-11 22:36 (UTC)

So has everything you've said. What's the difference? Why do you feel so bloody entitled to never facing criticism, hurt or anger? You are playing with fire, it's going to happen, you're going to have to deal with it. It's the same as how the OP has to deal with the existence of rapefic. Stop acting like such a brat.

Thank you. You put things in a much better perspective.

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