[ SECRET POST #615 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #615 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Early cause I have class!

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Comments

[tsukinofaerii.livejournal.com]

Late as always. (hums)

104. I think the reason for all this wank is because people are already conditioned to be uncomfortable about their fantasies, especially when those fantasies differ from the perceived "norm". @-@ And this feels like a challenge, which has the expected response of putting everyone up in arms. It would happen with any "abnormal" kink if someone expressed discomfort with it. The difference here is that rape fantasy is so prevalent that there's more people to get upset over it. (Funny how something that's perfectly normal gets perceived as a "perversion" because of Western [in this case mostly American I think] issues about sex.)

It makes me wonder about that 31-57% figure posted above; how many women said "no, never!" because they were embarrassed about it?

Anyways! I feel for what you've gone through, but there's a reason why rape fantasy is rape fantasy. It's an absolutely normal part of sexuality, and honestly has nothing to do with reality. Someone can correct me on this, but rape fantasy is largely about blame. "If X made me do it, then it's not my fault." That applies to just about every forced-sex situation (Veela-Draco, hello!), and non-con just expresses that. Your friends are incredibly insensitive (are you sure they're friends?) for bringing it up in front of you, and you should probably ditch them, I would.

I had a what was practically a dissertation on this, but I think the two paragraphs sum it up neatly enough.

106. Yeah, you're crazy.

137. That... is a depressing viewpoint. D:

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[twistedsheets10.livejournal.com]

Very thoughtful words on 104. I haven't considered the whole 'blame' angle on rape fantasies. I rather thought rape fantasies were more about control and domination, as it is often with actual rape; however, in a rape fantasy, the one at the receiving end of the 'rape' is the one in control as for that rape fantasy to happen, her consent to be 'raped' must be given, unlike in an actual rape. Some people find it rather exhilarating to give up control to someone and let them have their way with them and yet still truly be in control.