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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-02 04:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #4470 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4470 ⌋

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Re: What did you do today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-03 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Speaking as someone who had a recent death in the family, short and sweet is best. It's doubtful the bereaved will have the will or time to do more than glance at it anyway, and a big long message might make them feel obligated to respond.

"I'm so sorry for your loss", "My thoughts are with you and your family", etc. are good. Maybe if you have a genuine one, share a very short memory of the deceased. "Your grandma always made the best fart jokes."

Re: What did you do today, FS?

(Anonymous) 2019-04-03 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. Yes, I have been writing a draft before I write on the card.

I've made it a lot shorter than it was, but it's still a couple of brief paragraphs. I wouldn't feel right making it too brief or impersonal because I was very close with the whole family when I was younger.

Thank you for the suggestion about including a memory. It helped.