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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-02 04:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #4470 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4470 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-03 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not the person who responded, but how is it misogyny to go, "They were heavily influenced by Twilight because they were fucking twelve during this time frame and the romanticized abuse they were exposed to in their favorite book had a huge impact on them, by their own admission, and their choices later in life because they thought Edward was so romantic and they wanted one of their own?"
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[personal profile] ninety6tears 2019-04-03 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
That's not really following the point I was replying to, but if men weren't inclined to abuse women it wouldn't matter what girls were fantasizing about, and in the absence of misogyny it wouldn't be created anew by female fantasies. Nobody asks to be mistreated, and it's not a "conspiracy" that makes it happen anyway, it's abusers.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-03 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
But when you live in a society that constantly tells you "a guy who's possessive and treats you like shit is the ideal,it's his way of showing how profoundly he loves you" and then get given fiction that just further glorifies this shit, it definitely affects young teens who come across it. Women up thread have given their stories about how the series has negatively impacted them and their perception of romance or the ideal guy, and your kneejerk reaction is to invalidate them? In the name of denegrating misogyny? Real nice.