[ SECRET POST #4470 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4470 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Realizing you have feelings for someone else when you're in a relationship...

[(Anonymous)]

Hey OP tbh I also gotta apologise, I was being an asshole and that was probably unwarranted. I mean, to be fair to you AND to your colleague, feelings are awkward and difficult to talk about, and talking to people and exploring things is USUALLY how you’re supposed to deal with them.

Like I also get why you might be unwilling to hold it against your colleague; I’m presuming it might be just as confusing for her, and she might’ve had a (pretty understandable) and natural reaction of wanting to reach out to someone else for help in a difficult time, and who better than the person she knows and trusts and like, right?

It’s not odd or wrong to feel that way, but the action she took, whether she meant it or not, put you in a very awkward spot and was pretty inconsiderate because you are like the absolute furthest from a neutral third part in the whole shebang. She shoulda taken it to a therapist or to her own spouse or something like that. But people don’t always do what they should, or know what that is - like, I should’ve been less of a dick in the earlier reply, but I didn’t because hey, it’s the internet, and I was just shooting off a reply mostly.

Maybe try to find people irl to chat with or think about like, what it is you DO want out of a relationship or what an ideal relationship would be like for you. Like it’s obviously about more than just… comfort or convenience or accessibility or attraction, what sort of life goals or whatever does that have? I don’t doubt you find your colleague interesting and all, but if this did go forward, do you know what a life together would be like?