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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-05 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #4473 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4473 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Note from OP: All images obtained without creepy family stalking: James & Sullivan Marsters' from a promo shot for their band, Jensen & JJ Ackles' from Jensen's public Instagram]


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(Anonymous) 2019-04-06 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
I made this as a throw away comment and someone made it a secret. I hoped to get discussion at what point of influence explicit fantasies aren't okay since like there's a definite subset of people who are YKINMKATO, but are also strongly against common male fantasies and the discrepancy bothers me since it comes off more as male fantasy is inherently impure instead of more variety would be cool.

(Anonymous) 2019-04-06 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
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Well, there's a big gap between "at what point are we demonizing or regarding as inherently impure certain types of sexual fantasy" and "you're acting like a Christian soccer mom". But since you want to talk about the first one: I hesitate to say there are inherently bad fantasies. That said, I also think we live in a society where instantiations of common fantasies serve to reinforce an unequal status quo, even when they're done respectfully or with innocuous/good intentions. Maybe that's the same thing as saying some fantasies are inherently bad (in certain societies), but I think there's a difference for me. I don't tend to blame individual people for having certain fantasies, but I do think the phenomenon on a large scale is problematic.