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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-10 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #4478 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4478 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much, yeah. Unless it involves criticizing women's kinks, then you're gonna get torn apart. Otherwise, admit you have no female friends or admit you have bad experiences with women and you'll get a round of applause.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
What on earth? Neither of those things is "saying something negative about women". Both of them are statements about one individual person's life. Unless someone goes out of their way to make a more general argument based on their anecdotal experience, it's just... Not the same thing at all.

You're seriously claiming that having negative experiences with women means that you hate women in general?

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Anons up thread are saying the exact same thing ("I've had bad experiences with men") and is being ganged up on, accused of being bitter due to being ugly and unwanted by men, and generally not being treated well at all. So that kind of blows holes in your argument right there.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Honest question, which threads are you referring to? I see a handful of comments that match what you're describing, and I agree that those people are being assholes, and people seem to be actively calling them out as assholes. If there's some post I didn't see please link me to it so I can call whoever is doing that an asshole!

(and, by the way, I still don't have a problem with it at all, but there's a significant distinction between "I've had negative experiences with men" and "men are only tolerable in theory or in fiction")

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
They're being called out by 2 other anons, one of whom is me. That's it. Otherwise, it's fine to downplay women's bad experiences with men, say "I have lots of male friends, you're just bitter and ugly and the problem is you", etc. You simply cannot say anything negative about men here at all without getting flak, a lot of which is hilariously sexist against women. The reverse isn't true.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
Reread your comment. You just basically stated that you want to be openly sexist without anyone calling you out on it. In this very thread an anon is being called out for sexism against women. And you yourself are being called out for sexism against men.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
In this very thread an anon is being called out for sexism against women

By literally one other person. That's fucking nothing compared to the majority of the thread.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
Again, why do you think it is just one person?

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
See, the difference here is that you can freely admit you have no female friends or good experiences here with women and face no rebuttal. But say the same thing about men? Oh boy, you're gonna get shit on.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
But... What do you think this thread is? The one that you're posting in?

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
A thread full of women getting defensive over being called out on their constant double standards, with no decent rebuttals or defense for their actions. It's so much easier to just go "lol troll" than think critically.

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
You are assuming these are all the same people. Why?

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
you can freely admit you have no female friends or good experiences here with women and face no rebuttal

I've been coming here since its creation and literally nobody has ever said this and not faced massive rebuttal. You're talking out of your ass.