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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-10 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #4478 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4478 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-04-11 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, anon, I can definitely empathize with you.

Every long-term male friend I've ever had has wanted to have sex with me (I know because they've all told me as much, in one way or another). And while I obviously don't know for sure about the more acquaintance-level friends, I'd definitely say quite a few of them have wanted to as well (they're not generally all that subtle, you know?).

In defense of some of my male friends, I've had a few who were entirely capable of dealing with their feelings on their own and not treating me like an object, or like I owed it to them to fuck them. And the majority of the acquaintance-level guy friends haven't actually been inappropriate with me.

But it does get incredibly alienating, over time, when you realize that you go through life feeling like you need to be prepared to deal with the fallout of denying men this thing they really want from you.

I'm sorry you've had so many bad experiences, anon. And I'm sorry about the asshat above who went the load road in trying to invalidate your experience.