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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-15 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #4483 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4483 ⌋

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Re: Random question

(Anonymous) 2019-04-16 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
Oh hey, I’m still not entirely sure about my sexuality (and I’m 35 so, uh, call me slow)

I'm 31 and even though I've been IDing as ace since I was 15, I still find my sexuality pretty confusing. I go with ace because the bottom line is I don't want to get sexy with anyone. But I wouldn't really say I'm not a sexual person, I'd just say I don't want to be personally involved in any sexual activity with another person. So I totally get how someone could be 35 and not be entirely sure about their sexuality. :)

I’m not sex repulsed or anything but my brain can more easily picture flying by flapping my arms than getting naked with someone. It feels weird, not in a good way, but also not in a scary way. As if everyone else walks on their feet and I try it and end up walking on my hands again.

This is a great description and I'm the same way. Hell (TMI warning) I've even tried, occasionally, to imagine myself with an attractive character while getting off. But my brain just wants to change the channel. And if I don't change the channel, my brain just kind of turns the "me" in my mind into another character instead, so that I'm just imagining two characters together. Which also isn't really hot to me, unless they're the right characters, but even two random characters is still less "DOES NOT COMPUTE" than trying to imagine me with anyone.

*shrugs eternally*

Anyway, I'm really glad you replied to my comment. It's so comforting to talk to another ace/potentially-ace/similarly-oriented person and just kind of compare notes. :)

Re: Random question

(Anonymous) 2019-04-16 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey there! I'm basically the same as you. I'm 30 and I don't go "ew sex" or anything, but I've ever had any and I'm... fine with that? I also rather read about/watch my ship fuck while masturbating than anything else. I've never imagined myself with my fav character or... any other person really (except kissing when I was a teenager, completely with backround music lmao).