[ SECRET POST #4497 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4497 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Chef and food writer Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall, the River Cottage series]

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03.
[The Final Table, Rafa Gil (Brazil) and Esdras Ochoa (Mexico)]


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04.
[James Bond/Moonraker, Jaws and his girlfriend, Dolly]


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05.
[Luther]


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06.
[Queer Eye]


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07.
[Brooklyn 99, Rosa Diaz & Amy Santiago]

















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 25 secrets from Secret Submission Post #644.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Not OP, but chill. Everyone should wear what they feel their best self in. But people are allowed to criticize fashion and not like certain styles.

[(Anonymous)]

I think there's a reasonable line to draw between saying you don't like a certain style and saying everyone wearing a certain style looks shitty. And it definitely feels like OP is a lot closer to the second.

[(Anonymous)]

Some styles just look dumb, though. It doesn't matter who's wearing them, they're unflattering and/or messy-looking on everyone.

[(Anonymous)]

Thinking a style looks shitty on most people is a perfect reason not to like the style, though.

[(Anonymous)]

Please point to where in the secret OP says everyone wearing the french tuck looks shitty? Fashion and one's personal appearance are touchy topics, but I don't think it's productive to go looking for offense.

[(Anonymous)]

OP says it looks awful...

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt - Which is definitely not the same thing as saying "saying everyone wearing a certain style looks shitty". OP is criticizing the french tuck. They are not saying everyone who wears it looks shitty. The former is directed at a style, the latter is directed at a person or persons.

I don't always french tuck, but sometimes I do. It depends on the shirt. There's no need to take someone else's opinion on it so personally.

[(Anonymous)]

The way they reacted, it's pretty obvious that ayrt took it personally because they're hella insecure.

[(Anonymous)]

Criticizing people's fashion choices isn't exactly self-assured behavior.

[(Anonymous)]

Of course people are allowed to criticize! And I'm allowed to respond to their criticism. Yay internets.

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt - Absolutely! But responding defensively and conflating criticism of a style as a personal attack is... well, it's a choice. Not a good one, though.

[(Anonymous)]

but it wasn't a criticism leveled at you, and you're kind of acting like it is