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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-04-30 12:32 am

[ SECRET POST #4498 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4498 ⌋

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Re: Venting/Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-04-30 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
My friend will not. Shut. The fuck. Up. About Endgame. I'm not into MCU at all, and normally this is just fine in our friendship; we have other things in common! But she's super mad about this movie, and literally every single conversation we're having has to come back to it. And I just... I don't care! I don't care about any of it.

I've flat-out told her that I feel like she hardly wants to talk to me at all unless it's about a movie I'll never see, and she said she saw my point and she apologized, but she just. Keeps doing it. I'm at my wits end! I'm hoping this just cools off in the next couple of weeks, I know the wound's still kind of fresh, but like... this feels unhealthy? Something I hate just happened in one of my fandoms too, but it hasn't consumed my entire soul like it seems to have for her. I want to tell her to take a couple hundred steps back, because there's no reason to be this personally invested, but idk.

Re: Venting/Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-05-01 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Omg, I have a friend who dies this too. It's really annoying when it's a shared fandom, because i just want to forget about it while she rants forever snd keeps bringing it back.

Re: Venting/Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-05-01 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
That's just it? Like... you can just forget about the upsetting thing and move on. There has already been so much fix-it fic for what she's so upset about, and idk. Having shitty things in canon 100% sucks, I get that, but that's what fandom is for.

She even has friends that are into MCU, so I really don't get why she keeps bothering me with it! It's like she's literally not capable of talking about anything else. I'm honestly worried for her, but I'm just... hoping she cools off soon. It's so aggravating.
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Re: Venting/Advice Thread

[personal profile] 11thmirror 2019-05-01 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Get one of those squirt bottles that people use for misting plants, and label it "Talking About Endgame" and every time you're around her, just put the bottle someone obvious and within easy reach.

Re: Venting/Advice Thread

(Anonymous) 2019-05-01 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
+1
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Re: Venting/Advice Thread

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-05-01 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
LOL