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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-05-01 10:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #4499 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4499 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
My parents have a very loving marriage (I'm not interested in relationships at all), but they are not the be all and end all of their worlds. They have friends.

It's pretty creepily isolating to have NO friends but your spouse.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Huh. My parents have a loving marriage, and they've never had friends they regularly saw or hung out with.

Dude, I think we're just introverts without the emotional energy to maintain anything but casual acquaintances.

Weird how you immediately jumped onto this "creepy" and "abusive" angle.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah no, I'm an introvert too and that's not just being introverted, that's definitely not normal and more than a little unhealthy.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
It can be, depending on the situation, but different things work for different people.

Stop being so goddamn judgmental because something else works for you.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
dude, it's just plain not healthy to have your entire emotional support system be a single person. for one thing, it's incredibly unfair to that person, and for another, they can't always be there for you at all times, and there will be times where you don't see eye-to-eye on things and they don't agree with you. that's why it's important to have a few different people you can turn to.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Do you not understand the concept of "different things work for different people"? What about that do you not understand?

Yes, in general, it's good to have several people around. But not everybody cares to have that. And there's nothing wrong with that.

So again. Stop being judgmental of things just because what works for someone else doesn't work for you.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
what part of "this is unhealthy and literally every doctor and therapist will tell you this is unhealthy" do YOU not understand?

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
"Stop being judgmental of things just because what works for someone else doesn't work for you."

Pot, kettle, black...

Did you forget what you said that quickly? You initially jumped in the conversation acting like others are inferior for not thinking their relationship with their SO is the only thing that matters.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-02 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
"Maybe someday you'll experience a loving marriage and understand what I'm talking about. I hope so, anon!"

do you remember posting this