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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-05-08 12:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #4506 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4506 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-05-08 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
SA as above, just to also point out that said people may in fact not want to know (or care) if their faves are problematic, and it is 100% their right.

The point is: if you care that much about *insert issue*, you have the resources to find out for yourself if your new fave is involved with it. If you don't, you have the right to be left the fuck alone and enjoy your problematic fave in peace.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-08 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
But there's nothing particularly unique about that. It's true of every circumstance that there's information we do and don't want to know, and there's no filter yet devised that's capable of controlling that perfectly. So we're all sort of left to muddle along trying to make the social norms as workable as possible. And asking for the social norm to be that people never talk about it is preposterous.

(Anonymous) 2019-05-08 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Not talking about it =/= not going into other people’s blogs and offering unsolicited, unwanted ‘advice’.

Talk about it on your own blog, engage with others already discussing it, of course. But do not throw yourself uninvited into someone else’s space to ’inform’ them of some problematic BS they never asked about, just because they reblogged a funny comic. See the difference?

(Anonymous) 2019-05-08 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure! I think that's a lot more reasonable.